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15 Unpopular Opinions About Relationships That Are Actually 100% True

By Nitin Bhatnagar, 24 June 2018

Relationships are complicated and all of us have different opinions about a particular relation. There is no denying the fact that one’s views are formed on the basis of some factors, such as their upbringing, background and experiences that they have had in life. You might find something quite strange or odd but to other person, it may seem pretty common.

A Twitter user Royce Tyler asked people to share their unpopular opinions on relationships.

Shortly his tweet was flooded with responses and people shared their personal opinion over relationships. They might vary with your viewpoint but as they say, no particular statement can define a relationship as it’s among the most complex things of the world.

1You might even have to tell a lie to please her

There are times when your girlfriend is wrong but she might not accept it or may feel bad if you make her realize this. Hence, you may choose to hide the truth and tell a lie by saying that she is right. Undoubtedly, you do it because you don’t want to hurt her; however, this should be done in a limit otherwise you might be left with nothing other than to repent later for this.

lie to please her

2Why should men pay the bill alone?

It’s a general perception that all money-related responsibilities are on the shoulders of men and they are expected to pay the bill no matter wherever the couple goes, be it shopping, dinner, movie tickets and so on. Well, when women talk about the right of equality, it is their duty to contribute to the bill as well and pay half of the amount.

pay the bill alone

 

3Give freedom and space

According to one Twitter user, if your partner wants to date some other guy or girl, you should allow them and not interfere in between. It’s very important in a relationship to show trust on your partner and if he/she loves you, one date won’t be able to affect your relationship at all.

Give freedom and space

 

4Don’t involve your friends

A fight or an argument that takes place between a couple should not be made public as people would eventually make fun of you and your partner. If you both had a fight, discuss the issue and come to a solution mutually but don’t go to your friends for advice. They might unintentionally tell others about it too and ultimately you and your partner will become an object of mockery.

Involve your friends

 

5You have got nothing to do with my past

According to a Twitter user, a person can have had multiple affairs before being in a relationship with the current partner. However, it should not be a factor to determine one’s feelings and character. What had happened is the past and has got nothing to do with your current partner.

nothing to do with my past

 

6Not everyone is social and there’s nothing wrong in it

Social media has changed people’s lives to a great extent nowadays and there are many who keep on posting each and every happening related to them on social media sites. However, some persons believe in keeping their personal lives private and hence don’t share any pic or status about their partners. Well, this doesn’t mean that they are cheating but they simply want to keep it private.

Everyone is social

 

7We all deserve some privacy and ‘Me’ time

Every one seeks for some privacy regardless of whether they are in a relationship or married. If your partner wants to spend some time alone, you should respect that instead of arguing uselessly. No one owns each other in a relationship and they are together just because they want to be.

Deserve some privacy

 

8Never make fun of your partner even in a humorous tone

Respect is one of the elements that are very necessary for a strong relationship. You and your partner might love to tease each other by making fun of one another when alone; however, this should not be done in public as no one likes to be a subject of laughter. It naturally makes them feel insulted and will eventually have an adverse effect on your relationship.

Never make fun of your partner

 

9You may be very pretty but not the most beautiful woman in the world

Some women have a tendency to get jealous or angry if their boyfriends look at any other beautiful girl. Well, beauty should be appreciated and there’s nothing objectionable if your man admires it. You are not the most beautiful woman of the world and the sooner you will realize this, the better it will be for you. The noteworthy thing here is that even though there are many other women who are prettier than you, he chose to stay with you and quite naturally, beauty is not the only base of your relationship. Agree?

You may be very pretty

 

10Your partner is not your property

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that one cannot have their own choices, likes and dislikes. It’s not necessary that a person whom you like should be liked by your partner too or if you dislike someone, he/she should also possess the same feeling. Your partner is not your property and it’s not at all good for a healthy relationship to force your partner for making choices according to your interests.

Your partner is not your property

 

11I love you and I don’t need to show you off all the time

Love is a very beautiful feeling that can only be experienced by the concerned people. There’s no parameter to define and measure love and you actually don’t need to tell others how much you love someone. Quite true, a person is not required to show the partner off all the time just to prove his/her love.

I love you

 

12Keep your private life separate from social media

Time has changed a lot and people today spend more time on social media than in real life with people around them. From the morning selfie to coffee date and dinner, all posts go on social media and collect likes and comments. However, this idea is not appreciable at all and no one needs to update status on their relationships. If you stop enjoying in virtual world, you will take pleasure in real world and focus on making your relationships happier.

Keep your private life separate

 

13Don’t blame the other person for all the mess of your life

It’s not at all a wise idea to point a finger at your partner all the time and held them responsible for whatever wrong is happening in your life. You might have had your shares of suffering but this doesn’t mean that the other person is happy and contented. Blame game doesn’t lead to any solution but instead worsen the situation. Take your responsibility and try to sort out things effectively and peacefully.

Blame game doesn’t lead to any solution

 

14Trust your partner

Needless to say, if you doubt you partner, you are making one of the biggest mistakes as trust is the foundation of any relation. Every person of your partner’s opposite gender is not interest in physically involving with them. Keep it in mind and don’t make your life hell by making unnecessary doubts.

Trust your partner

 

15 Don’t indulge in a relationship if you have not forgotten your ex

Many people go through a troubled relationship and then comes the time of separation. It’s good to move on in life rather than crying and getting upset. There are chances that you get a better partner who understands you and keeps you happy. Nevertheless, you should never indulge in a relation until you have actually forgotten your past otherwise it will ruin your present and future too.

In a relationship